The Battle of Inferiority

The word inferiority (as well as the complex) has haunted me my whole life. Recently I lamented this with a small group of successful friends. “I just don’t feel like I’ve accomplished much and I’m deeply discouraged,” I said.

Both shook their heads. Both reminded me of what has happened in my life the past decade: the books, the influence, the speaking, the travel. All true. But I still struggle with shaking the dust of inferiority from my soul.

For instance, whenever I’m around someone I perceive as highly successful, I coddle that inferiority. I honestly believe doctors are better than me. Pilots too. Big name authors as well. In their greatness, I feel small. Not that I want to be them or am not thankful for the gifts God has given me, but that in light of them, I want to shrink away.

Yet God tells me not to throw away the confidence I have in Jesus Christ. “So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded” (Hebrews 10:25 NIV). He reminds me of my worth, not because of my abilities or strengths, but because of His superiority and value. My battle with inferiority is a God issue, a faith issue. Because compared to everyone else, we are all on the same level, all in desperate need of a savoir, all incapable without His capability.

Inferiority is deeply entwined with shame, and shame is a terrible weed to uproot from our souls. Yet if we make a choice to look away from our own perceived inferiority and the shame that plagues us, we will see Christ’s sufficiency covering us, shielding us even from our own shame.

I want to walk that way today. No longer inferior, but resting in the superiority of Jesus. How about you?

About Mary DeMuth

Mary DeMuth, author of The Muir House and many other books, is a contributor to FaithVillage. Follow her on Twitter @marydemuth. Meet Mary and the rest of our team here.
  • http://www.facebook.com/gillian.marchenko Gillian Marchenko

    I needed this today. Thanks Mary!

  • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

    Glad it blessed, Gillian.

  • http://www.eileenknowles.com/ Eileen

    Yes, I’ve struggled with feeling this way my whole life.  I’ve got to constantly combat this lie with His truth.  And we look at it from God’s perspective you are correct.  We are all in need of his grace everyday.

  • http://www.marydemuth.com Mary DeMuth

    Yes, I so agree.

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